Id like to point out (especially now that I've slept a wave of PTSD off, something bad happened to me in meatspace recently and my patience is much thinner than usual) that I really do like your posts and I'm sorry things got heated there. I've been getting spammed by transphobic trolls (mysteriously after making that defed post with not super high engagement) and concern trolls (three of which dmd me), all of whom were obviously men, that's the context of the discussion for better or worse.