more threads dunking on this dumbass, surprisingly upvoted.
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/17hkqzi/my_32m_partner_33f_went_to_sleep_crying_on_her/k6pjcdt/
https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/17hkqzi/my_32m_partner_33f_went_to_sleep_crying_on_her/k6p4plh/
Theis plaes shood be supoortive and wholesome regaardless of my plaes of birth/resiidence, otherwise it seems iets kleins anti-dutch