It's 100% untrue. Men are beautiful. You are beautiful. Believe in yourself and remember that the most attractive thing in the world is a kind heart and that starts with being kind to yourself.
Don't let the world make you feel ugly, they're just trying to sell you shit.
These are real problems faced by real men and no amount of sunshine is going to change it. What would anyone do in a situation like that? Pulling yourself up by your bootstraps is a discredited attitude.
You can get help from others too, but your personal attitude is critical. Get that doomerism out of the bloomer comm, friend.
Regarding you're claim that this is bootstraps, this isn't about fixing or excusing systemic poverty. It's about personal development.
I know a short Asian guy who had similar laments to you. He still got a girlfriend, and he has a loving and confident attitude.
Yeah, but why bring race into it at all and why single out Indian men? As I said, I wouldn’t be surprised if you frequent lookism or some site like it. You have a really bitter attitude like a lot of the posters there seem to have .
White people aren’t some superior group of gorgeous tall demigods
its not telling you to bootstrap, its saying that you're already fine the way you are and to not let other people dictate how you see yourself.