Toronja [none/use name]

Man, give me a break.

I got that from you saying that it's a toxic sub; To you, it's a toxic sub because they call out all the ways men exploit women through the patriarchy - and even suggest ways for men to be better partners in their FAQ -

There's nothing consensual about BDSM or sex work in patriarchy and capitalism; Just like your boss now pretends to be your friend, men pretend to be equal to women, if anything, they only have the choice to pick their oppressor now.

You did say it's a toxic view

Why is it a toxic view? It's not women's responsibility to teach men to respect women.