Voidance [none/use name]

  • 2 Posts
  • 280 Comments
Joined 1 year ago
cake
Cake day: January 14th, 2024

help-circle




  • This is so true. I box for fitness and the only time I've been in a real fight it was like - everything was fine, then everything went black and I fell to my knees gasping, then once i looked up my attackers were already gone around the corner and I was covered in blood and realised id been hit repeatedly. The people who'll give you a fair fight are usually times you can use de-escalation or run away. The people who preemptively intend to fuck you up won't give you a chance. But probably better situational awareness could've helped me









  • Voidance [none/use name]tochatHow do you get over a crush?
    ·
    edit-2
    19 days ago

    A crush is a kind of fantasy (in that you idealise someone, imagine how your life could be with them, etc). You destroy the fantasy by exposing it to reality/action, in this case expressing your feelings honestly to the person. If it works out then great, if it doesn’t then it’ll be easier to reorient yourself and you’ll find someone new to crush on.







  • The reason that, for example, RAF terrorism in West Germany was ineffective and counter-productive, is that it didn’t align with the values of society. The RAF thought the people would support them when the inevitable government crackdown came, but people supported the state increasing its own powers to oppose terrorism. By contrast, Luigi’s action has a level of support that a resistance group to a foreign occupier might expect. People can talk shit about his personal politics all they want, but it was a perfect choice of target.