Understood. Actually, I must be wrong about the $10,000 figure, but in any case I should probably delete this account after I've gotten the advice and orientation that I need. Or at least scrub the personal details so other people can get answers (I know I needed something like this when it first happened). Thank you for your input!
What did you have in mind with:
we’d probably want to strategize on some ways to extract value from the house before foreclosing starts ?
I've been pulling out all the appliances and tools that I can find and bringing them back to my apartment, and of course some sentimental things, but were you thinking of something else?
Thank you for your thoughtful comment and sentiments. I will probably make a post there soon.