It is probably due to a number of people stopping using their alts after some instance hopping.

Also a few people who came to see how it was, and weren't attracted enough to become regular visitors.

Curious to see at which number we'll stabilize.

Next peak will probably happen after either major features release (e.g. exhaustive mod tools allowing reluctant communities to move from Reddit) or the next Reddit fuck up (e.g. removing old.reddit)

Stats on each server: https://lemmy.fediverse.observer/list

  • Venus [she/her]
    hexbear
    68
    9 months ago

    Pretty sure it's going to just be like 12 of us

    Hexbear has been very active for 3 years before we even federated. There's plenty of room for growth. We're not going to become reddit (and that's a good thing) but acting like it's just going to die (or is already dead) is just ridiculous

    • @imgonnatrythis@lemm.ee
      hexbear
      6
      9 months ago

      Hexbear has become a cesspool. Not exactly a great example to aspire to. I actually wish we would become very much like Reddit used to be back in the day. I very much enjoyed that experience and want it back. I'm sure plenty of others do to. Im just disappointed that it seems much more likely that Lemmy fizzles than soars. I can't emphasize enough how big and bad a deal the stripping of third party API access to reddit data is. I wish more people felt more strongly about this beyond posting pictures of John Oliver. Not sure if you are old enough to remember when high quality RSS feeds were a thing, but this direct access to data that users could custom curate was amazing. When you take control of how users consent data, you start to take control of the users. Lemmy has immense potential and at face value people are largely fed up with being manipulated and taken advantage of by internet giants, but most are clearly not fed up enough to leave their comfort zone. Spez and the others are well aware of this and happy to take advantage. It takes a ton of effort to keep something like Lemmy afloat. Just like a new restaurant, if after a few months it's not taking off, it's pretty unlikely to do so with more time. I hope I'm wrong, but the Spez nonsense was a huge gift to growing Lemmy, and in the grand scheme of things the effect was quite small.

      • Venus [she/her]
        hexbear
        67
        9 months ago

        Hexbear has become a cesspool

        Hexbear is an aggressively inclusive space full of thoughtful people who are passionate about making the world a better place and educating their fellow man. If every online space were more like hexbear we'd all be much better off

        I actually wish we would become very much like Reddit used to be back in the day. I very much enjoyed that experience and want it back. I'm sure plenty of others do to

        Oh yeah back in the good old days of /r/jailbait and /r/creepshots and /r/sexwithdogs

        • @LoopingRiver@lemm.ee
          hexbear
          5
          9 months ago

          Lol.. so inclusive wanting to bring down America, listing out a bunch of people you’d love to get rid of (anyone you consider bourgeoise), unyielding fanboying of China…

          I think the overall Lemmy experience has gone downhill since hexbear federated. I also think seeing the propaganda posts constantly hitting the All feed will drive people away. Are there even any non-political hexbear communities? All I ever see are anti-is and pro-China posts.

          I still can’t wrap my head around being so pro-trans rights (a fabulous thing), yet in the same breath simping for China. Not the most stellar LGBTQIA+ record there.

          • Venus [she/her]
            hexbear
            64
            9 months ago

            Everything is political. We have comms that we don't consider political, but you would still consider them political because you would rather they cater to your politics rather than ours. We have !games@hexbear.net for example, but because it's not a liberal comm you would consider it political.

            I still can’t wrap my head around being so pro-trans rights (a fabulous thing), yet in the same breath simping for China

            You're literally professing your support for trans rights and simping for the US in one comment so you must be mega confused

          • ProxyTheAwesome [comrade/them]
            hexbear
            60
            9 months ago

            so inclusive wanting to bring down America

            Yes. America is the pre-eminent fascist violence force on Earth and must be brought down for the good of humanity

            • @atomicfox@lemm.ee
              hexbear
              1
              9 months ago

              Not having America around to keep Russia and China in check sounds great for humanity 👍

              • Flaps [he/him]
                hexbear
                50
                edit-2
                9 months ago

                Damn you really kept them in check when you bombed Iraq back to the stone age

                You also really kept China in check when you moved your entire industrial capacity there

              • SeventyTwoTrillion [he/him]
                hexbear
                48
                edit-2
                9 months ago

                "What if they invaded, pillaged, and coup'd the countries WE were going to invade, pillage, and coup! Can you imagine the tragedy?! Better that us, The Good Guys, exploit these countries than The Bad Guys!"

          • @eatmyass
            hexbear
            52
            edit-2
            8 months ago

            deleted by creator

          • Annakah69 [she/her]
            hexbear
            49
            9 months ago

            If you can't wrap your head around being trans and supporting China you need to stop consuming MSM and examine your assumptions.

          • sharedburdens [she/her, comrade/them]
            hexbear
            44
            edit-2
            9 months ago

            I live in the US and it's pretty bad for LGBT people here. I don't feel the need to cheerlead US interventions because they have a coat of rainbow paint.

          • silent_water [she/her]
            hexbear
            24
            9 months ago

            think the overall Lemmy experience has gone downhill since hexbear federated.

            sicko-hexbear

          • GarbageShoot [he/him]
            hexbear
            16
            edit-2
            9 months ago

            so inclusive wanting to bring down America

            Paradox of tolerance, babyyy

            I still can’t wrap my head around being so pro-trans rights (a fabulous thing), yet in the same breath simping for China.

            Cuba supports both

      • @eatmyass
        hexbear
        59
        edit-2
        8 months ago

        deleted by creator

      • ProxyTheAwesome [comrade/them]
        hexbear
        51
        9 months ago

        It's less of a cesspool than every other lemmy instance I've visited which is filled with Reddit-tier libs

      • Grebgreb [he/him]
        hexbear
        21
        9 months ago

        I actually wish we would become very much like Reddit used to be back in the day

        reddit back in the day had a huge jailbait sub

        Hexbear has become a cesspool

        lol

        • WhyIsItReal [he/him]
          hexbear
          42
          9 months ago

          i mean, yeah. if you insult someone, they’ll typically defend themselves

          • @GBU_28@lemm.ee
            hexbear
            1
            9 months ago

            "insult" sure.

            He effectively called a porcupine spikey.

            What's funny about hexbear is the users reflexively rise to the fight every single time, they can't just scroll past.

            Taiwan #1

            • silent_water [she/her]
              hexbear
              26
              9 months ago

              yes, it's on purpose - we actively discourage lurking and encourage engaging with bad takes. the more you complain about it, the harder we go at it.

              • @GBU_28@lemm.ee
                hexbear
                1
                edit-2
                9 months ago

                "bad take" really depends what side of the echo chamber you are on.

                Y'all respond to criticism like kim jong un is standing right behind you lol

                Also we aren't in hexbear right now

                • silent_water [she/her]
                  hexbear
                  20
                  9 months ago

                  obviously whether a take is bad or not depends on your politics. it's so obvious I'm surprised you'd bother pointing it out.

                  Y'all respond to criticism like kim jong un is standing right behind you lol

                  this isn't criticism. it's just a snide aside.

                  Also we aren't in hexbear right now

                  again, obviously.

                • Bakzik [he/him, comrade/them]
                  hexbear
                  19
                  9 months ago

                  We are in a Federated instance. So we can participate, as long we follow Da rulez.

                  But you miss your reddit-logo echochamber, don't you?

                  xi-lib-tears

                  • @GBU_28@lemm.ee
                    hexbear
                    1
                    9 months ago

                    Right, being in a federated instance isn't lurking. Glad we agree.

                    And no I don't, I've had a few meaningful discussing with some true leftists but most of y'all only have a knee jerk reaction available to criticism. You end up pushing near-allies away for lacking your dogmatic devotion, seemingly to xi? As you have a bunch of photos of him saved?

            • WhyIsItReal [he/him]
              hexbear
              10
              9 months ago

              you’re saying calling something a “cesspool” isn’t insulting?

            • GarbageShoot [he/him]
              hexbear
              7
              9 months ago

              "insult" sure.

              He effectively called a porcupine spikey.

              Wonder how the porcupine got its spikes . . . Must be its authoritarian personality!

          • @GoodEye8@lemm.ee
            hexbear
            1
            9 months ago

            You think collectively antagonizing, using "libs" in a derogatory form and calling others "imperialist running dogs" constitutes as defense and not toxic behavior?

            • Commiejones [comrade/them, he/him]
              hexbear
              29
              9 months ago

              Calling out imperialist running dogs isn't toxic. Just like being aggressively anti-racist isn't toxic. If a person upholds capitalism, which is by nature exploitive and anti-egalitarian, they are toxic and deserving of rebuke.

              • @GoodEye8@lemm.ee
                hexbear
                1
                9 months ago

                So as long as they don't ideologically agree with you it's acceptable to be toxic towards them, because their "wrong ideology" makes them toxic?

                Are you also aware that most of the proletariats unknowingly uphold capitalism? Considering you say they're toxic are you against the proletariat or are you a fake socialist trying to create a class divide, the ones who agree with you and the ones who don't, within the proletariat?

                • silent_water [she/her]
                  hexbear
                  18
                  9 months ago

                  if you asked questions in good faith, you'd know that the community is also aggressively welcoming to such people, even when we disagree. but you don't so you won't.

                  • @GoodEye8@lemm.ee
                    hexbear
                    1
                    9 months ago

                    It's bad faith to automatically assume someone being critical is doing it in bad faith.

                • SmokinStalin [comrade/them]
                  hexbear
                  7
                  9 months ago

                  Those are good questions that you could get good honest answers to if you wanted. Other hexbearians are much more articulate than me.

                  We are aggressively welcoming to anyone who's genuinely just trying to learn. stalin-approval

                • GarbageShoot [he/him]
                  hexbear
                  6
                  9 months ago

                  So as long as they don't ideologically agree with you it's acceptable to be toxic towards them, because their "wrong ideology" makes them toxic?

                  Think about this in the context of, idk, race science or something. Let's say you have someone who is openly a big fan of Charles Murray, owns a copy of The Bellcurve, gets the whole nine yards. Would you deny that such a person is necessarily toxic?

                  • @GoodEye8@lemm.ee
                    hexbear
                    1
                    9 months ago

                    Actually, without any other context, I would. I would label them as misguided. Just because they believe in what I believe as the wrong thing doesn't mean they're automatically toxic. If they're unwilling to even consider alternate perspectives or decide to just be antagonistic then they're toxic.

      • HornyOnMain🏳️‍⚧️@lemmy.ml
        hexbear
        6
        9 months ago

        I actually wish we would become very much like Reddit used to be back in the day.

        A libertarian infested hell site that was most well known for just being 4chan lite and actively harbouring pedo communities?