Anybody want to commiserate on something that sucks?

  • UlyssesT [he/him]
    hexbear
    5
    10 months ago

    I can't even imagine how shitty online dating has gotten since I found someone and got married. And the "touch grass" alternatives (including the memetastic "go to le bar") sound horrible in their own ways for single people.

    • Othello [comrade/them, love/loves]
      hexbear
      2
      edit-2
      10 months ago

      yeah, Im struggling to make friends personally. I dont want to go to bars, people who go to bars are there. i think i need a hobby like roller derby. I hear roller derby is mostly queer women and enbys. but i gotta get in shape, and buy roller skates. theres one near me that is proudly trans inclusive and they need people.

      • UlyssesT [he/him]
        hexbear
        3
        10 months ago

        I dont want to go to bars, people who go to bars are there

        That is such a real mood and it's haunted me for decades without putting it to such words.