I just wish that gaydar was a thing or homophobia wasn't a thing. The ambiguity of lgbt subtext in conversation is so hard to navigate and it's risky if you're not sure the other person is interested or not.
I'd love to have specific and direct language, but I know it's a big ask outside of dedicated safe spaces.
I feel like all the subtle hints and indirect flirting is just kind of boring and counter-intuitive. If you're into someone just come out and say it. There's so many chances to miss the signals even if both people are NT which can end up in a missed connection. It seems like it's almost a special interest for some NT people and it's totally the opposite for me.
I just wish that gaydar was a thing or homophobia wasn't a thing. The ambiguity of lgbt subtext in conversation is so hard to navigate and it's risky if you're not sure the other person is interested or not.
I'd love to have specific and direct language, but I know it's a big ask outside of dedicated safe spaces.
I feel like all the subtle hints and indirect flirting is just kind of boring and counter-intuitive. If you're into someone just come out and say it. There's so many chances to miss the signals even if both people are NT which can end up in a missed connection. It seems like it's almost a special interest for some NT people and it's totally the opposite for me.
bring back throwing your hat into a lady's window to announce your courtship