Isn't the entire point of the profile and matching system to filter incompatible people out? Why can I match with 50 people and not a single one wants to get a coffee or something after exchanging a few pleasantries? Everybody hates these things and yet they refuse to do anything IRL to get off them. Is there some Manchurian candidate activation codeword that I'm missing? I feel like everyone treats this shit solely as an ego booster and actually gets pissed off that anyone tries to interact with them. How do you meet people in hellworld if you don't drink?

Me after dozens of dead-end back-and-forths that lead to nowhere despite having shared interests and presumably being attracted to each other since we matched: marx-joker

Hmm, maybe it's the extreme commodification of relationships and atomization under capitalism that prevents you from getting anywhere with this garbage thinkin-lenin

Nope, must be because @SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net didn't say my favorite "The Office" quote and send me a playlist with 50 of the greatest songs I've never heard that made me instantly fall in love with them. I have no idea what other people expect from these things but I'm not doing labor for someone that I don't even know is real. Thanks for reading my rant, any advice is appreciated.

  • UlyssesT [he/him]
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    9 months ago

    constant threats during war

    Chemical warfare, machine guns, white phosphorous, and nuclear weapons were not constant for all of those thousands of years. They came later, which is exactly my point about how things do change over time and can get better/worse in different ways.

    You still have the untenable claim of "things are only exactly as good and bad as they ever were" and it's thought-terminating and useless. There's no purpose to saying it except maybe a false sense of superiority.

      • UlyssesT [he/him]
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        9 months ago

        Still not seeing a point to your apathy advocacy here. It just seems self-congratulatory and based upon impossibly unlikely presumptions about things being exactly and only as good and bad as they always have been over time.

        • rjs001@lemmygrad.ml
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          9 months ago

          Because it’s hard for me to believe that this one thing is worse when nearly every single other thing in society has improved since then

          • UlyssesT [he/him]
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            9 months ago

            when nearly every single other thing in society has improved since then

            That's some sheer Pinker-brained smuglordery right there. Telling people that are having a bad time that nearly every single other thing is supposedly better therefore they should never express their frustrations with the here and now is nothing more than a thought-terminating cliche for your own benefit. pinker farquaad-point

              • UlyssesT [he/him]
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                9 months ago

                most of the critiques of modern dating I see also seem to be coming from incels

                So you're smugly declaring that anyone single in this thread is implied to be an incel because they're not smugly satisfied with the status quo like you are.

                What the fuck is wrong with you?