• Wugmeister@lemmy.dbzer0.com
        hexbear
        12
        8 months ago

        Getting lots of therapy helped me find mine. Seriously, the more emotionally and mentally stable you are, the more attractive you are to girls

        • FourteenEyes [he/him]
          hexagon
          hexbear
          11
          edit-2
          8 months ago

          Been in and out of therapy for 22 years when I can afford it and I'm more emotionally stable but still not stable so I guess I'll die alone

          • Wugmeister@lemmy.dbzer0.com
            hexbear
            4
            8 months ago

            Honestly, just being willing to put work into yourself makes you more attractive. So many girls settle because most guys aren't willing to do that work

    • Mindfury [he/him]
      hexbear
      45
      8 months ago

      in fact, I'd say that becoming a theocratic nazi is counterintiuative to engaging in coitus

      • zifnab25 [he/him, any]
        hexbear
        14
        edit-2
        8 months ago

        Generally speaking, your odds of fucking go way up if you just hang out with lots of other co-eds and act normal.

        Whether the group you're hanging out with are sports nerds or labor activists or far-right Catholic dogmatists, just socializing regularly and being normal will inevitably mean hanging out with single people you consider attractive. After that, its just a matter of hanging out with those people individually and occasionally flirting to express interest. Lots of other people are just as horny as you are.