I think a lot of it is guys that don't put themselves out there (I do this too) because rejection and the vulnerability of admiting to someone you like them is authentically very scary
I think this is exacerbated by the fact a lot of guys are taught what not to do that certain behaviours are creepy which is good, but there is a lacking part which is teaching what you should do instead
varies dramatically on a case by case basis
I think a lot of it is guys that don't put themselves out there (I do this too) because rejection and the vulnerability of admiting to someone you like them is authentically very scary
I think this is exacerbated by the fact a lot of guys are taught what not to do that certain behaviours are creepy which is good, but there is a lacking part which is teaching what you should do instead