Killing people with kindness is absolutely a thing and it's great for two reasons.
Wither you catch people off guard and have a genuinely pleasant interaction
Or the person never wanted to have a pleasant interaction, in which case there is literally nothing that makes them more angry than you refusing to engage.
Being raised by a narcissist it's hilarious to watch them get furious at the fact that you aren't giving them anything to get mad at and realizing they can't articulate that frustration.
Killing people with kindness is absolutely a thing and it's great for two reasons.
Wither you catch people off guard and have a genuinely pleasant interaction
Or the person never wanted to have a pleasant interaction, in which case there is literally nothing that makes them more angry than you refusing to engage.
Being raised by a narcissist it's hilarious to watch them get furious at the fact that you aren't giving them anything to get mad at and realizing they can't articulate that frustration.