I found romance/erotica about a preferred type helps unlock a lot of the feelings of attraction. Most people have a lifetimes worth of romantic context surrounding the opposite sex. It can take some relationship role models to find the proper way to express your sexuality.
I used to be kinda asexual but then I started reading romance about different types of girls and started finding the various archetypes I read about a lot more attractive in real life. Of course, this may just be an emotional blindness thing where I had to be guided by the hand to become aware of my own internal state.
Shortly after I realized I'm probably bi, I started wondering if my taste in men is sort of undeveloped because I haven't really been considering them in romantic or sexual ways.
I found romance/erotica about a preferred type helps unlock a lot of the feelings of attraction. Most people have a lifetimes worth of romantic context surrounding the opposite sex. It can take some relationship role models to find the proper way to express your sexuality.
I used to be kinda asexual but then I started reading romance about different types of girls and started finding the various archetypes I read about a lot more attractive in real life. Of course, this may just be an emotional blindness thing where I had to be guided by the hand to become aware of my own internal state.
Shortly after I realized I'm probably bi, I started wondering if my taste in men is sort of undeveloped because I haven't really been considering them in romantic or sexual ways.