I seem to only like curvy women with large breasts and or butts.

I would rather like men, it seems cooler

  • ShimmeringKoi [comrade/them]
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    7 months ago

    The trick with any daunting task is to break it up into small, managable parts.

    I would start by looking at men with large breasts and/or butts, then work my way up the Kinsey scale from there

    • ButtBidet [he/him]
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      7 months ago

      I thought this meant staring at individual parts of dudes. Go from beard, to chest, one ball and then two at a time.

  • Kuori [she/her]
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    7 months ago

    I would rather like men

    why, do you enjoy being disappointed or something?

  • FourteenEyes [he/him]
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    7 months ago

    Get super lonely and have serious body image issues and alexithymia so all your feelings mix together and you obsess over loving the unlovable/dangerous/repulsive and eventually you'll be jerking off to bugs and aliens like a normal person

  • Sopje
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    7 months ago

    I’m attracted to everyone I get to know and it’s very tiresome. I’d rather only be attracted to women because mediocre men are just too easy to get.

      • Sopje
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        7 months ago

        How to not be a mediocre partner: learn to regulate your own emotions, and don’t expect your partner to fix all your insecurities.

        It takes lot of energy to date someone who expects you to fix all their emotional problems. In my eyes the men who expect that are mediocre partners.

        Many of my female friends who date(d) men also found themselves in that position. In my experience women often work much harder on their relationships than men. If you’re able to put in the same amount of work then you’ll a great partner to some lucky person.

        If you’re not able to put in the same amount of work then you’re lucky, because for some reason many women are accepting of such relationships.

        • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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          7 months ago

          I think maybe my position is one where things are skewed by young women making a similar error to what (frankly) men of all ages make with overemphasized attractiveness in their selection and winding up with a partner who is a hot mess, if you'll pardon the pun.

          • Sopje
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            7 months ago

            In my experience that’s not really the case, as most women in my circles who date men often go for the not conventionally attractive types. I find it difficult to imagine someone to be too unattractive to date, because perception of attractiveness is very often determined by personality as well.

            But dating life is very different depending on social status and culture so your experience can be completely different.

              • Sopje
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                7 months ago

                Not really to be honest, it’s mostly that they had many common interests. I have many alternative and nerdy friends, so they just like kind or funny people who like the same music, games or books.

                • GarbageShoot [he/him]
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                  7 months ago

                  Christ, well hopefully I encounter an environment where people are that magnanimous one day (though I'll seek to apply your advice about being a stable person irrespective)

  • Assian_Candor [comrade/them]
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    7 months ago

    Start with femboys and work your way up

    It’s like going to the gym you have to train those muscles

  • GinAndJuche
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    7 months ago

    we’ve won, the straights are finally ok!

  • Yurt_Owl
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    7 months ago

    Watch boykisser for 10 hours

    Show

    • aaaaaaadjsf [he/him, comrade/them]
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      7 months ago

      Thank you for putting it like this and giving an actual answer. You're right, it's not something one can change like that.