what are things in your life you never got an answer to? I'll give an example:
In college I had a semester abroad in Germany. A week before we had to go back home someone took a huge dump in the laundry room. We never ended up finding out who it was lol. And not that it's haunted me, but it just pops up occaisionally in my brain and I'm like "damn who was it"?
In high school I took this sort of school-led community service trip to another country. Things got sorta raunchy on the last day, my friend ended up hooking up with these two girls in the grade above us.
We got back to the usa, had like one day of rest then back to school. On that day back to school I got a text from a number not in my contacts, like first thing in the morning as I was walking to school, reading "hey did [friend] hook up with [girl] and [girl] in [country]?" I kept asking who it was texting me, and they kept saying shit like "your worst nightmare" or "nobody." I have a couple of possibilities of who it might've been, but they never told me their name. Sometimes that pops into my head and I wonder who it was.
you know what, I just figured out who it was. A guy who would have had my number but I didn't have his, didn't really like me that much and acted really passive aggressive towards me, would've been obsessed with gossip like this and who was hooking up with who, and had no other way to confirm whatever rumors were swirling around the school other than texting me. That fits the profile of one man perfectly.