what are things in your life you never got an answer to? I'll give an example:
In college I had a semester abroad in Germany. A week before we had to go back home someone took a huge dump in the laundry room. We never ended up finding out who it was lol. And not that it's haunted me, but it just pops up occaisionally in my brain and I'm like "damn who was it"?
you know what, I just figured out who it was. A guy who would have had my number but I didn't have his, didn't really like me that much and acted really passive aggressive towards me, would've been obsessed with gossip like this and who was hooking up with who, and had no other way to confirm whatever rumors were swirling around the school other than texting me. That fits the profile of one man perfectly.