Anybody have any tips for keeping calm when a chud says their usual callous shit? I'm still a bit piqued from today.

Edit: Thank you all for your helpful comments. I greatly appreciate it.

  • ryepunk [he/him]9•3 months ago

    I usually just don't react, repeat what they said back to them, and they ask if I'm R slur and then I repeat what they said again for confirmation. Usually they walk away. I don't have the energy to engage people at work on any level beyond telling them where stuff is.

    I also wear a mask at work so usually they don't even bother talking because they assume I'm a blue haired woke lib.

    • Red_Sunshine_Over_Florida [he/him]5•3 months ago

      Probably best not to react. I should write a mantra of sorts and constantly repeat it in my head to remind myself.