I thought she just didn't want to do sex stuff or cuddle or show affection..
Anyway I just thought it was important to let the world know that you can be volcel army and still be in a committed ten year relationship. In fact isn't that what true comradeship is built on?
Weapons grade cope aside, I think I'm one of those weird types of humans who needs affection and so on. Am I really going to have to start dating again? FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK
As far as I can tell it's business as usual for her and she assumed this had been the status quo for a long time. I want to give her some space more generally since we've spent a fair bit of time chatting over the last few days.
To be sure I'll stay checking in with her. It's ride or die regardless of whatever else happens.