Nah, people exaggerate how bad it is imo, the admin and most of the posters are pretty cool but there's a small minority of incredibly online pick mes who'll bend over backwards to defend chasers and "I'm not transphobic but..."s who poison the whole experience. I've bashed heads with a few of them and been called "chaserphobic" and a "cisphobic misandrist" because of it but yeah, most of the instance is pretty ok.