It seems like the person not online as much sort of simulates a lot of unwritten social rules that only people who are able to learn those rules are able to see.

Can someone please tell me they know what I mean by this

  • the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]4•1 month ago

    Based on this limited information, some possible explanations:

    • Your content is good and relevant to her, but she doesn't actually like you
    • She doesn't know it's you
    • She is neurodivergent
    • She is socially anxious or inexperienced
    • She likes you but thinks you don't like her

    🤷

    Do you have any mutuals you could ask?

    • MayoPete [he/him, comrade/them]1•1 month ago

      Or maybe she wants to be a friend, but from more of a distance?

      IDK, I feel like people forget there's humans behind these accounts online and we collectively lost our ability to communicate how we feel. Ghosting sucks and IMO comes off as immature.