Holy fucking hells I would have laid into her so hard. That is some grade A nonsense and she would deserve to be put in her place. Perhaps I have a poor sense of self preservation (which is noted through many of my actions in my life), but I definitely wouldn’t’ve held back. If you have a more level head, perhaps you can turn her away from standard UK brain.
Either way, it seems like you’re going to have a rough time with them going forward. You might need to push a little if you hope to not have a bad time. Cause that last paragraph makes me angry.
She simply does not get why it was wrong to even propose that I should stay in the closet. Now she is like "well, if you really want to, sure we can tell people". No apology, no understanding of what the problem even is.
Holy fucking hells I would have laid into her so hard. That is some grade A nonsense and she would deserve to be put in her place. Perhaps I have a poor sense of self preservation (which is noted through many of my actions in my life), but I definitely wouldn’t’ve held back. If you have a more level head, perhaps you can turn her away from standard UK brain.
Either way, it seems like you’re going to have a rough time with them going forward. You might need to push a little if you hope to not have a bad time. Cause that last paragraph makes me angry.
She simply does not get why it was wrong to even propose that I should stay in the closet. Now she is like "well, if you really want to, sure we can tell people". No apology, no understanding of what the problem even is.