What're you into, what're you looking forward to, what're you happy about?

Please

I am feeling terribly self-harmy in advance of my birthday next week

I got to the point of making a pros and cons chart

give me something to be vicariously happy about or something to look forward to, please

  • SpiderFarmer [he/him]
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    2 months ago

    I got my cat. He's a fluffy little guy. In addition my luck has turned around a bit and I've had the time for miniatures and praxis. I wish you well. I've been at the point of making those lists and far worse than that. Whether people online or in meatspace, it's possible to connect with folks and feel better within the year.

    • the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]
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      2 months ago

      What's your favorite thing about your cat? What kind of miniatures do you make?

      I appreciate your solidarity and compassion very much ❤️ thank you

      Care-Comrade

      • SpiderFarmer [he/him]
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        2 months ago

        It's a blessing and a curse, but my cat loves drinking from the bathroom sink and tub. At this point he has me trained to turn it on for him. As for miniatures, I am currently working on Malifaux. It's more budget friendly than Warhammer at this point and it's a skirmish style, making for games that don't take 2 hours. I also never intend to go back to playing Warhammer given how they temporarily got rid of Tomb Kings. That Mummy/Skeleton army is super rad and honestly fun to play if you want to tackle people with chariots all day. Hope you're doing better today. Every bit counts, even the emotionally drained days that follow the roughest of times.

        • the_itsb [she/her, comrade/them]
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          2 months ago

          I'm doing better, and the kindness and conversation has been hugely helpful. Thank you very much for taking the time. cuddle

          My childhood cat was a sink drinker, too! 😻 and I also was trained to turn it on for him. His favorite way to drink was to lounge on the side of the sink like a Roman senator on his dinner couch, and he would lazily reach out his paw to catch drops and then lick them off. 🙄😂 just an absolute lush

          That reminds me that this guy likes to eat that way 😂

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          He sprawls out on his side next to the food bowl and grabs handfuls to eat, which makes a mess he is far too important to clean up. 🤴

          He seems to know that he should be embarrassed because he will not let me get a picture of it happening, he gets up and huffs off every time. 😂 Who wouldn't, right? Who wants dinner paparazzi??

          Thank you again meow-hug I appreciate this very much!