The ridiculous thing to me is why would you want to live like that. Okay cool you have power over some helpless people who fucking hate you. To what end? Great you have someone you force to clean your house for your and cook you a shitty dinner and have really bad sex with sometimes, but you have to be the sole monetary provider and you also have kids running around who don't even know you or care about you. It's a ton of pressure for some power that is honestly meaningless in the larger scale. How is that a rewarding or happy life in any capacity. Maybe I'm just can't see the world through their utterly fucked up lens but it doesn't make any sense to me. I just can't imagine how anyone looks at that and goes "yeah that's the ideal world!" It's much easier to just not be a fucking piece of shit and instead surround yourself with people who actually want to be around you, and it's more rewarding too.