jk, of course. honestly feels a little shitty to make this joke, but I know she's not on Hexbear and it helps me feel better about this situation, so 🤷😂

jfc, it is genuinely shocking to understand this as her impression of me – just not at all the social feedback that I am used to

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cannot tell you how many times I have been told I come off bitchy and c*nty and self-righteous – that sentence was genuinely astounding and I am still reeling, hence the post

lea-think

officially AuDHD, with suggestion to seek OCD help as well

if you've been assessed, how did you feel about your results? did it take you a year to fully assimilate them? 😂 feeling like it's gonna take me at least that long to really take all of this in

  • Dirt_Owl [comrade/them, they/them]
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    21 days ago

    Strange how they judge appearance. But I guess being unkept could be a sign of depression. I just wonder if you dressed like a punk what they would write.

    • NephewAlphaBravo [he/him]
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      21 days ago

      They probably wouldn't care, that line is more for clear hygiene concerns or like, extremely damaged or seasonally inappropriate clothes. It comes up a lot with people who need assistance with those things for whatever reason.

    • dustbunnies [she/her, comrade/them]
      hexagon
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      21 days ago

      being unkept could be a sign of depression

      that's how I took that bit as well

      I purposely chose a neurodivergent assessor, so I'd like to think if I'd shown up as my wildly fun art school self from 20 years ago, she still would have seen me as "kempt" 😂 I don't think she would have taken punk regalia as unkempt, either; she seemed very fucking cool

      honestly I wish she were my friend and not my assessor, she had very chill vibes