jk, of course. honestly feels a little shitty to make this joke, but I know she's not on Hexbear and it helps me feel better about this situation, so 🤷😂
jfc, it is genuinely shocking to understand this as her impression of me – just not at all the social feedback that I am used to
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cannot tell you how many times I have been told I come off bitchy and c*nty and self-righteous – that sentence was genuinely astounding and I am still reeling, hence the post
officially AuDHD, with suggestion to seek OCD help as well
if you've been assessed, how did you feel about your results? did it take you a year to fully assimilate them? 😂 feeling like it's gonna take me at least that long to really take all of this in
Strange how they judge appearance. But I guess being unkept could be a sign of depression. I just wonder if you dressed like a punk what they would write.
They probably wouldn't care, that line is more for clear hygiene concerns or like, extremely damaged or seasonally inappropriate clothes. It comes up a lot with people who need assistance with those things for whatever reason.
Oh good. For some reason my brain goes right to the "Why are they judging my style" defensiveness haha
that's how I took that bit as well
I purposely chose a neurodivergent assessor, so I'd like to think if I'd shown up as my wildly fun art school self from 20 years ago, she still would have seen me as "kempt" 😂 I don't think she would have taken punk regalia as unkempt, either; she seemed very fucking cool
honestly I wish she were my friend and not my assessor, she had very chill vibes
That's awesome she seems cool