• ThermonuclearEgg [she/her, they/them]
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    3 days ago

    In Commonwealth countries, the term isn't considered a slur as it is in the US. Not saying it's appropriate, but if he's actually from Australia, it's worth contextualizing a bit

    • MolotovHalfEmpty [he/him]
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      3 days ago

      True. I'm from a place where it's almost equally like to be a form of affection as gentle derision for blokes in particular. But I thought it better to CW it anyway and his use of it is definitely more in the vein of it's misogynistic legacy.

    • ClimateChangeAnxiety [he/him, they/them]
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      2 days ago

      I’d even say in the US in the last decade or so it’s become a lot more acceptable. My friends say it all the time, and they’re not the type to casually say slurs. Older people definitely don’t say it often though.