a life with no social media and phone, having more DIY, Punk, hacking style and stuff, how is that possible in current years? my ideas are having so low or no use of social media, using Linux or BSDS, having a custom rom at phone (or dumphone) and using alternative sites like image boards, IRC, old/niche forums, going to punk gigs and raves, learn music instrument, learn about cybersec, download music and movies, piracy in general, dress alt, make a personal webpage, using less javascript and using alternative's to crapitalism.
learn to do things
join clubs and learn from others mistakes too. I'd probably be dead working under an old car by now if I hadn't absorbed the wisdom of others who've come before.
TALK TO PEOPLE
You gotta meet people in the meat world. They will be imperfect, they will be frustrating, but a surprising amount of them will be receptive to you and if you listen more than you talk you can stay learning all the time and build a support network by accident.