Good advice. If you struggle with dating like me, the last thing you want to do is take advice from someone who didn't struggle with dating and just kind of fell into a relationship. College is the absolutely best time to meet someone, you'll never be around as many young single available partners as in college. I figured that out way too late. Didn't have my first long term relationship until I was 38. I got super lucky, partner was also raised with the same mindset of focus on yourself/your career, etc.