The protests changed me in a lot of ways. One way was, I was by no means a class reductionist before. But the protests really woke me up to the real struggles of oppressed communities in the US and importantly, the revolutionary potential in those communities. I remember listening to Rev Left in my car and had to pull over for a minute to absorb it when Breht said something to the effect of "what did white socialists in America ever give us?! Bernie Sanders!? Fuck that! The real revolutionary potential is with oppressed communities."
That sucks, I can't say I know what that's like to have my experiences dismissed by friends but it sounds shitty.
I gotta agree with you there, good explanation. I can't speak for your white friends, but I know it can be really easy to just mentally check a box saying "I am an anti-racist ally" and then continue living your life of privilege guilt-free because "you're on the right side." The protests provided a real release valve for white liberal guilt, I think.
It was especially hollow to see that for a month people on my social media feed focused on black issues (and restorative justice in general)... then it mostly just disappeared. Most of those white people who posted in june to "listen to black voices" were all posting about "vote for Biden" in August. For as intense as last summer was for BLM, people had far too short of an attention span for it.
definitely agree with you regarding the fact that there was a frenzied month where black issues mattered only for the focus to disapear. I think part of what contributed to this short term care was the fact that social media took on this very aggressive immediate discourse of "YOU HAVE TO MAKE SURE YOU STAND UP FOR BLACK LIVES. NOBODY SHOULD WONDER ABOUT YOUR POLITICS. IF YOURE A GOOD PERSON YOULL CHECK ON YOUR BLACK FRIENDS" without really explaining how and why allies should be sharing stuff / how they should be conducting themselves when checking in individually with their friends.
There was such a focus on LETTING THE BLACK PEOPLE KNOW YOU CARE VIA SOCIAL MEDIA INFOGRAPHICS that a lot of the really nuanced stuff that we've both mentioned in our comments/ throughout this thread were lost.
not that white people shouldnt be treated aggressively and made to answer yes or no immediately to asks for solidarity, but maybe expecting an immediate yes or no is a reason why white people think giving monosyllabic answers / performative easy stuff means doing the work