I dropped Spanish which was the only language offered during my high school years. I regret it, and now I'm embarrassed to start learning as a uni-aged guy. I want to learn Mandarin because then I would know English and Mandarin which would cover like 50% of the populations speaking abilities.

Basically I just feel like a dumb American and being a Marxist I need to know another language.

  • Kultronx@lemmygrad.ml
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    1 year ago

    the best time to start learning a language was yesterday... the second best time is right now. I was in the same boat as you at 20, and now I'm fluent in French, and have a strong grasp of German, Spanish, and Mandarin. Just practice everyday without fail.

    • juchenecromancer@lemmygrad.ml
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      1 year ago

      Being fluent in French disqualifies you from any possible appreciation of your other skills (this includes Marx, he should've just stuck to writing books in German)

  • Camarada Forte@lemmygrad.mlM
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    1 year ago

    Well, nothing stops you from learning it now that you're uncomfortable with not knowing a secondary language. A different language is extremely useful when reading books from another country. It's a whole new universe you can discover if you're able to read and comprehend a secondary language.

    In that respect, you should definitely plan before you begin learning a language. Think about why you're learning the language, and if the language is useful for a particular goal. You can be learning because you enjoy the challenge, etc. But it's a long-term commitment, you'll be learning that language for the rest of your life if you want to keep it.

  • WayneBarloweFan@lemmygrad.ml
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    1 year ago

    Same. But don't count yourself our on Spanish. Getting back into it is easy. Lots of ppl and resources and memes haha. The 25 year brain thing is completely made up

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  • calculusqu33n [none/use name]
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    1 year ago

    Duolingo, drops, daily chinese, and skritter (apps) are your new best friends!! Also, I haven’t had a chance to crack into it the way i’d like to yet, but if you go on anna’s archive (use a vpn please!) there’s a book on there you can download for free titled, “learn to speak chinese: beginning mandarin chinese for native english speakers” that is very thorough & very well written!!

    Saying all of this because I (22 y/o, she/her) honestly used to think I was too dumb to learn another language, but my boyfriend encouraged me to download duolingo & just give it a try. So, I gave spanish a good go & got over that mental roadblock, switched to french, & et maintenant, je sais beaucoup de français !! (and now, I know a lot of french!!) Duolingo does a wonderful job gameifying learning a language. You could also take an online course through UDemy.com if you wanted (only purchase a course when they’re doing a sale though; don’t pay $60-$200 for a course when you could get it for $15!)

    Best of luck friend. I seriously suggest just starting by downloading Duolingo. Anyone can learn a language at any point in their lives!! It just requires some practice. Good luck! You got this!! :))

  • Soviet Snake@lemmygrad.ml
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    1 year ago

    Do Duolingo, the Spanish course is the most complete one and there's also a room in the Matrix space for Spanish. You can ask me if you have any doubts, too. Mandarin is good, although it will be a little bit harder as your first second language, but you can do it if you put enough time into it.

    • TeezyZeezy@lemmygrad.ml
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      1 year ago

      I'll check it out. I've heard that Duolingo is a supplementary learning tool as opposed to primary, is that true? Are there any better resources? I know I've pirated Pimsleur courses in the past.

      Mandarin does look hard as fuckkkk.

      • QueerCommie@lemmygrad.ml
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        1 year ago

        Yeah, duolingo is not great for fluency, but it can help build your vocabulary. I recommend the Language Transfer course in addition.

      • Soviet Snake@lemmygrad.ml
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        1 year ago

        Everything is supplementary, there isn't the one tool that will teach you, but it doesn't matter, Duolingo makes it easier to start and you will learn stuff, the things it doesnt teach you, you can ask them elsewhere, immerse yourself in the language and so on.

        LanguageTransfer is a really cool podcast so that also helps, i havent used many other platforms for indoeuropean languages.

      • Dudewitbow@lemmy.zip
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        1 year ago

        Any category 5 language is hard if youre starting from a english speaking background (chinese (mandarin and canto), arabic, japanese, korean)

        With cat2 languages. You can learn them on the side. Cat5 languages require active studying and maintaining to effectively learn them.

        Of the cat5 languages, Koreans probably the easiest due to having a very modernized alphabet (to get you from not being able to read to be able to read(not necessarily understand) is the easiest due to having a significantly shorter alphabet(hangul)

  • smrtfasizmu@lemmygrad.ml
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    1 year ago

    If necessity is not a concern then you should only learn a language if you want to, not because you feel like you have to. Learning a language is an incredibly long and arduous process so the will and the desire to learn it has to be there.

    • TeezyZeezy@lemmygrad.ml
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      1 year ago

      That makes sense. It's not really a necessity, I'd just like to learn more to be able to communicate with more people and be able to more accurately slice through propaganda. Language barrier is a big thing yknow? And I just don't want to be a dumb USian lol

  • KrupskayaPraxis@lemmygrad.ml
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    1 year ago

    Learning a language is hard, so I understand why you haven't learnt a second one yet. But as a person who's interested in languages I can give you some tips.

    Practise daily, whether that is through online apps or study books, preferably both. Watch news broadcasts in the language you want to learn, and read the news as well. Practise speaking, and if you don't have someone to practise with, practice with yourself. Watch TV shows in the language and try to build towards not needing subtitles anymore. Listen to music in the language and look up the lyrics.

  • 𝕃𝕒𝕞𝕓@lemmy.zip
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    1 year ago

    Learning a language of a country you moved into is hard and took a bilingual extrovert I know 3 years. Good luck. In the age of translations, you're fine.

    Also, you really shouldn't feel any less for not speaking a second language. Most stats of language proficiency are heavily overblown. Most stats where they qualify people as speaking a language seems to be on a level where they can answer pre-learned answers to pre-learned questions, which is not what I'd consider speaking a language.

    • Kultronx@lemmygrad.ml
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      1 year ago

      Memorizing all the characters I find is the hard part, the grammar is much simpler than English or German, that's for sure

      • Bartsbigbugbag@lemmy.ml
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        1 year ago

        I have no trouble memorizing the digital characters, but holy hell, writing is tough. I pretty much only can write 我,你,用,有 and a couple others from memory, and I practice writing at least a few hours a week.

  • starhonker@lemmygrad.ml
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    It's okay. I come from the same background, and worst part is I didn't go to an actual school. Now I can speak German relatively well, and I'm on my way to figuring out Mandarin. All it takes is discipline. There is no time like the present, and don't stall yourself mentally by speaking of regret. Want to learn Spanish? Slap open a dictionary, right now, start writing down words. Google resources on Spanish grammar, there's plenty out there. Libgen is your friend if you ever need to get a PDF copy of certain textbooks. Want to learn Chinese? Also plenty of resources. If you like gamified learning and don't feel like you can sit around to learn Mandarin, get Duolingo, do a few words a day. Yes, you probably won't get a good grasp on the language that way, but every bit counts! Learning a language isn't like going from 0% to 100%, often time it's a life long struggle, and by no means am I trying to discourage you with this, but the way you need to see it is: learn a few words a day, phrases, learn grammar, consume media, however much you can tolerate at a given time, and you will be equipped with much more knowledge than before, possibly in the future with enough to engage in basic conversation. And the best part is with languages in my experience, once you get to a conversational level, everything else will come easily, vocabulary will be something you pick up the more you engage, and people will certainly be impressed. Don't give up comrade, you've got this.

    • WestwardWind@lemm.ee
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      1 year ago

      If you've got the big monies and like gamified learning go with Pimsleur over Duolingo. For any language but especially learning Asian languages as an English speaker. Duolingo is shit at them. Over 4 months of daily usage for Japanese, while living full time in Japan, and it's still quizzing me on teriyaki and sushi. Did a single free Pimsleur lesson and learned more actual conversation and grammar than I've gotten in Duolingo this year.

      Or 🏴‍☠️ the older workbooks and audio lessons instead of the app. It was originally a CIA program so it's not like American money didn't already pay for it. Their Spanish ones were quite good

      • redtea@lemmygrad.ml
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        1 year ago

        In that vein, there's always the old FSI courses. Designed to get US diplomats fluent as fast as possible. People say good things about them. It's all audio, though, I think. So it depends what you like. Not sure if there's a Japanese course.

        • Giyuu@lemmygrad.ml
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          1 year ago

          To be fair, listening is probably the most important part of learning a foreign language (for most learners) and perhaps requires the most time to develop. In every day life, listening and thus conversation/exchanges requires instant comprehension, and that's also a huge part of how we form social connections/associations with each other. With reading you can generally take your time to digest things.

          • redtea@lemmygrad.ml
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            1 year ago

            Strongly agree. The accent has to be just right for me, though. Otherwise I can't put my ears through it. That's why I like listening-reading. I go by content and accent, and get 7–35+ hours with a voice that I can listen endlessly to.

      • Shinhoshi@lemmygrad.ml
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        1 year ago

        Agreed, Duolingo might help with absolute basics, but it's not great for Japanese. For Japanese kanji, I'd recommend an SRS like WaniKani (or an Anki deck if you don't have the big monies).

  • CaptainRipcord@lemmygrad.ml
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    1 year ago

    You don't need to know another language, but I always recommend learning another language. I'd join a group for comradely language learning