i mean a lot of it has to do with consent. my bf is a smart guy and he rams his dick into my (clothed) butt all the time and grunts like a cave man. i think its funny. he also grabs at me a lot while we're one on one. obviously if you do that to anyone else thats creepy. i think youre probably fine because youre so worried about this, tbh a lot of men do not introspect at all about this and it makes them do awful things.
to me, objectification has a lot to do with how people treat you. people can be attracted to you and be polite, or maybe nervous around you, and thats fine! but when they dont think about 'oh hey maybe shes not into being called sugar tits by a random guy' thats when it becomes a problem. a lot of this has to do with personal boundaries, and i know that probably wont help someone who is super anxious about it, because there simply isnt one standard. if youre interested in someone you need to learn their standard.
i used to be in your boat a lot tbh. but i became way more loose about it and whenever i was on a date with someone or interested with someone id just ask them if theyd be down to cuddle and talk about shit more personally. sometimes that worked, sometimes it didnt, but it seems to have worked well! though i am a woman so maybe most people like that from a woman, idk
I am an anti-natalist myself, and I tell you this wholeheartedly
Log off and have sex copelord, anti-natalism has no substantive base when unmoored from leftist politics so you stand on nothing when you shit your pants on this site.
I had sex a couple months ago. Felt nice but realized it was essentially me using someone else as a masturbation aid, which is really fucked up.
Also unless you can ensure that both parties enjoyed a sexually encounter equally it’s an unequal exchange which is unethical under Marxism, and most sexually encounters are very much not equally pleasant for no the parties, especially hetero ones.
I don't like if this is a bit because it feels like it's mocking ace people which isn't cool and if it's not a bit I feel bad because I'm mocking an ace person which isn't cool
i mean a lot of it has to do with consent. my bf is a smart guy and he rams his dick into my (clothed) butt all the time and grunts like a cave man. i think its funny. he also grabs at me a lot while we're one on one. obviously if you do that to anyone else thats creepy. i think youre probably fine because youre so worried about this, tbh a lot of men do not introspect at all about this and it makes them do awful things.
to me, objectification has a lot to do with how people treat you. people can be attracted to you and be polite, or maybe nervous around you, and thats fine! but when they dont think about 'oh hey maybe shes not into being called sugar tits by a random guy' thats when it becomes a problem. a lot of this has to do with personal boundaries, and i know that probably wont help someone who is super anxious about it, because there simply isnt one standard. if youre interested in someone you need to learn their standard.
i used to be in your boat a lot tbh. but i became way more loose about it and whenever i was on a date with someone or interested with someone id just ask them if theyd be down to cuddle and talk about shit more personally. sometimes that worked, sometimes it didnt, but it seems to have worked well! though i am a woman so maybe most people like that from a woman, idk
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lmao this is so whack bring back downvotes
What’s the opposite of the spray bottle emoji
You’re trying to make me objectify another human (aka being horny)?
Okay thanks for trying to tempt me into using another person for physical gratification you pervert
I am an anti-natalist myself, and I tell you this wholeheartedly
Log off and have sex copelord, anti-natalism has no substantive base when unmoored from leftist politics so you stand on nothing when you shit your pants on this site.
I had sex a couple months ago. Felt nice but realized it was essentially me using someone else as a masturbation aid, which is really fucked up.
Also unless you can ensure that both parties enjoyed a sexually encounter equally it’s an unequal exchange which is unethical under Marxism, and most sexually encounters are very much not equally pleasant for no the parties, especially hetero ones.
I don't like if this is a bit because it feels like it's mocking ace people which isn't cool and if it's not a bit I feel bad because I'm mocking an ace person which isn't cool
When u try to materialism so hard you commodify sex. Good job 👍
folks, is it exploitation to have a little more fun during a group activity than the other person?
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I'll be here all week
Lmao
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