After seeing some threads it's clear that there are chapos here who need a mentor in the romantic arts (tm). Pitch me your best Q's and I'll spit my best A's.
I've been a professional dating coach and matchmaker for the last 6 years.
edit: Wrapped up for now. Thanks everyone and good luck out there, you can do it!
I've worked with clients of all sexual orientations and gender identities. Gay men do tend to be the easiest to match, I will say that. As a general rule, they're less stuck in their own heads / anxieties.
It's a problem for a lot of people, especially with internalized misogyny which ties self-worth with romantic success. You're not alone if you experience this and a therapist can do wonders here.