I don't want to be hateful or off-putting with this but I really just can't stand the large majority of men, it's obviously not some inherent feature in them but there's some part of all the socialization and shit that they go through that makes the majority of them fucking intolerable to be around.

I can name maybe like three dudes in my life who I don't consider to be creeps and one of them is considering if they're non binary! Women are often shitty too but not in the same way and not in the same amount. And when they are, it at least tends to be toned down a lot more (once again likely due to socialization) so it's more tolerable compared to the Dudebro who will fling slurs and make sexual comments about you. Like talk to any woman in your life and you'll hear endless stories of harassment by men, but you won't hear it the other way around from women, the worst you'll (often) get is that one time some chick was a bit rude.