not in the slightest ._.
like...compare it to petting a dog, sure it's nice to pet a dog, but the dog probably has it better ya'know?
kissing and sex and stuff is like that.
Petting a dog is very soothing! But I don't want to draw too close a metaphor between that and sex because yikes.
talking sex
But giving pleasure, especially with that element of control, is so erotic, it's such a thrill to see someone I'm into just writhe in pleasure from what I'm doing, it makes me turned on, and it makes me want them more. And of course I still do it with them, like if I'm topping someone with a dick I'm probably riding that thing, or if not then I'm sitting on their face, and it gets me off so much harder when I've gotten all worked up wrapping them around my finger.
One thing I have noticed is I'm more in a sub mood when I'm "raw" horny, like I desire physical pleasure, and more in a domme mood when I'm horny for someone in particular and the horny comes from specifically desiring them. If that explains anything.
"Oh, you're a switch? Well what if one of the two most basic switch fantasies happened to you? I bet you'd hate that!"
....I don't know how it works, okay! :soviet-pout:
Okay here's how it works.
I like topping. I like being topped. It's kinda hot to switch roles in the middle
Basically I always win :soviet-huff:
you're an alien.
Does that turn you on a little? 😏
I just don't understand the mindset at all :blob-no-thoughts:
Well do you understand the mindset of a top?
Cause I know you know how fun it can be to bottom 😇
not in the slightest ._.
like...compare it to petting a dog, sure it's nice to pet a dog, but the dog probably has it better ya'know?
kissing and sex and stuff is like that.
Petting a dog is very soothing! But I don't want to draw too close a metaphor between that and sex because yikes.
talking sex
But giving pleasure, especially with that element of control, is so erotic, it's such a thrill to see someone I'm into just writhe in pleasure from what I'm doing, it makes me turned on, and it makes me want them more. And of course I still do it with them, like if I'm topping someone with a dick I'm probably riding that thing, or if not then I'm sitting on their face, and it gets me off so much harder when I've gotten all worked up wrapping them around my finger.
One thing I have noticed is I'm more in a sub mood when I'm "raw" horny, like I desire physical pleasure, and more in a domme mood when I'm horny for someone in particular and the horny comes from specifically desiring them. If that explains anything.