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  • Rem [she/her]
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    4 years ago

    Well do you understand the mindset of a top?

    Cause I know you know how fun it can be to bottom 😇

    • REallyN [she/her,they/them]
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      4 years ago

      Well do you understand the mindset of a top?

      not in the slightest ._.
      like...compare it to petting a dog, sure it's nice to pet a dog, but the dog probably has it better ya'know?
      kissing and sex and stuff is like that.

      • Rem [she/her]
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        4 years ago

        Petting a dog is very soothing! But I don't want to draw too close a metaphor between that and sex because yikes.

        talking sex

        But giving pleasure, especially with that element of control, is so erotic, it's such a thrill to see someone I'm into just writhe in pleasure from what I'm doing, it makes me turned on, and it makes me want them more. And of course I still do it with them, like if I'm topping someone with a dick I'm probably riding that thing, or if not then I'm sitting on their face, and it gets me off so much harder when I've gotten all worked up wrapping them around my finger.

        One thing I have noticed is I'm more in a sub mood when I'm "raw" horny, like I desire physical pleasure, and more in a domme mood when I'm horny for someone in particular and the horny comes from specifically desiring them. If that explains anything.

        • REallyN [she/her,they/them]
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          4 years ago

          Petting a dog is very soothing! But I don’t want to draw too close a metaphor between that and sex because yikes.

          you get what I mean :meow-tableflip:

          But giving pleasure, especially with that element of control, is so erotic

          I guess I don't really seek that kind of control, I don't like it....for whatever reason.

          it’s such a thrill to see someone I’m into just writhe in pleasure from what I’m doing

          nah...it's much better on the other end I thinks 😳

          One thing I have noticed is I’m more in a sub mood when I’m “raw” horny, like I desire physical pleasure, and more in a domme mood when I’m horny for someone in particular and the horny comes from specifically desiring them. If that explains anything.

          that makes sense, I guess.

          • Rem [she/her]
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            4 years ago

            Well, different preferences, you're entitled to enjoy whatever you do 😊 Especially if that includes a nice spanking 😊

              • Rem [she/her]
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                4 years ago

                Oh okay yes we'll strike that from the agenda 🙇🏻‍♀️

                  • Rem [she/her]
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                    4 years ago

                    Okay, well to would never spank someone unless they gave me a very good reason to, or asked very sweetly for one 😇