lol ,.. soooo ... you might just be her "my black friend doesnt mind ,therefore i am not racist"

Why would you ever be friends with someone like that? I would not be friends with anyone my age who thinks like this and I'm white.

I would comment more about how what this ex friend is saying throughout their post is complete nonsense, but I'm sure you know that already and this is the POC community so I'll shut up in accordance with rule 2, and you'll get a better perspective from fellow POC users.