i feel like this is a thing with white queers in general, especcialy if they had a “conservative phase”
Wholly agreed. As soon as they hear a label they don't like, all of a sudden, it becomes 'reductive', you're just 'playing a card' to them, you got 'too radical'. There's a reason I stopped fucking with white queers in general, and a lot of it has to do with the way so many of them glommed onto "all lives matter" as a response when BLM was first starting to rev its engine-- your ex-friend smacks of the same kind of reflexive anti-blackness that seems to thread its way entirely through the queer community.
All I know is the moment someone tries to tell me to not live in the Blackness I'm only just now finding as a result of one of those type of aspirant 10-percenter upbringings, that's the moment I cut the mf off like a rotting bough; with an exact receipt for why.
lmao fuck 'em. I'm with Othello; soon as I got rid of the crackers, my peace of mind, ability to sleep undisturbed, and ability to look at myself in the mirror without seeing a sold-out minstrel in the reflection all increased tenfold.
Wholly agreed. As soon as they hear a label they don't like, all of a sudden, it becomes 'reductive', you're just 'playing a card' to them, you got 'too radical'. There's a reason I stopped fucking with white queers in general, and a lot of it has to do with the way so many of them glommed onto "all lives matter" as a response when BLM was first starting to rev its engine-- your ex-friend smacks of the same kind of reflexive anti-blackness that seems to thread its way entirely through the queer community.
All I know is the moment someone tries to tell me to not live in the Blackness I'm only just now finding as a result of one of those type of aspirant 10-percenter upbringings, that's the moment I cut the mf off like a rotting bough; with an exact receipt for why.
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It was as soon as you started setting boundaries, wasn't it
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lmao fuck 'em. I'm with Othello; soon as I got rid of the crackers, my peace of mind, ability to sleep undisturbed, and ability to look at myself in the mirror without seeing a sold-out minstrel in the reflection all increased tenfold.