That's kind of what my only contribution was investigating. I'm personally bad with faces and by extension clocking people's ages, and the thought of this happening is extremely upsetting to me. That's why I'd never engage in adult activities with any person I know to be under 24 or would clock as a day under 24 (as a 29 year old). In my mind OP's big shortcoming here was not recognizing that weakness in themselves and having a similar policy in place. OP did a fair amount of due diligence, but clearly the consequence of not enough due diligence is so dire that there's no choice but to just have a stricter no-go policy.
but clearly the consequence of not enough due diligence is so dire that there's no choice but to just have a stricter no-go policy.
Yeah, "Is this person I'm considering sex with underage?" is one of those things where ten thousand false positives are preferable to one false negative.
That's kind of what my only contribution was investigating. I'm personally bad with faces and by extension clocking people's ages, and the thought of this happening is extremely upsetting to me. That's why I'd never engage in adult activities with any person I know to be under 24 or would clock as a day under 24 (as a 29 year old). In my mind OP's big shortcoming here was not recognizing that weakness in themselves and having a similar policy in place. OP did a fair amount of due diligence, but clearly the consequence of not enough due diligence is so dire that there's no choice but to just have a stricter no-go policy.
Yeah, "Is this person I'm considering sex with underage?" is one of those things where ten thousand false positives are preferable to one false negative.
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