Permanently Deleted
You know we don't know who you are right? Like you can just get a new account and we would never know unless you told us. It's the internet. That's why all this accountability stuff we talk about can't actually exist here. It only works when we know you in-person.
It does sound like you need some time offline though, you're being way too online about this.
I’ll never discourage someone from logging off.
That said, self flagellation doesn’t really accomplish anything. What’s wrong with acknowledging a fuck up, learning from it and being better in future?
I'm really sorry for engaging in victim blaming for even a second, and I'm also sorry for letting down everyone here who cared about me. This was a place where I truly felt accepted, yet I blew it. Perhaps it's best that I be sussed out as a problematic character and purged.
this is all in your head dude. nobody is mad at you.
The decision is, of course, motivated in part by the recognition that my initial response to the CW-worthy event was wildly incorrect, immoral, legally questionable, and frankly indicative of severe gaps in social-sexual knowledge that would make one unworthy of being anywhere but among the fascists and libertarians
this is also on in your head. nobody is mad at you and you haven't broken any laws or done anything that anyone reasonable would be mad about.
you're good, man, feel free to forget all about it and keep posting, and don't call yourself all those things please.
edit: maybe do try to get off the internet a lot more, tho, if you can. just don't feel bad about it
Woah what did I miss? I had no idea about any of this
Someone claiming to be a regular posted under a throwaway that
CW child SA, self harm
They thought they were in a sexual relationship with an 18 year old girl with an abusive home life, but it was actually a 15 year old trans-masc boy who had lied about their age. The cops were involved and the OP of that thread was posting in the mental health comm looking for support with suicidal ideation.
Several posters, including the OP of this thread provided said support by minimising his actions and blaming the child.
The OP of that original thread was 31.
There's a guy that's made a few posts about some person he's been dating that was lying about basically everything in their life and jerking him around and it was causing him a lot of mental anguish. Same person made a post under a throw away account the other day saying the liar was also lying about their age and they're a literal teenager.
The sordid details: https://hexbear.net/post/1251773 (CW: statutory r*pe between a 30-something year old and a 15-year old)
The people coming out to defend this are really telling on themselves.
