That guy was being weird but I think that was a little harsh.

its not obtuse i gain this opinion from a discussion ive read by a black feminist about the way society shames black women and part of that discussion used twerking as an example of how our perceptions of black women and them being "aggressively sexual" is fueled by white supremacy and the person was making that case that most dances in the black community are twisted to be perceived as overly sexual in order to objectify and demean black women in the social sphere when at the day they are dancing their dances and being comfortable in their bodies in their own way

so basically, our perceptions about the sexual nature of this stuff is fueled by sexism and racism and is not necessarily an inherent part of the action

but i guess we arent ready for that struggle session on hexbear yet i dunno