Not even critical support. Just, I can recognize the place it had in my life. Like my shitty ex who tried to run me off the road. I certainly learned things about myself due to her, but she still sucks.
That’s valid and is largely how I feel. I wouldn’t be here and know what I know now without those experiences. I view my time in the army in the same light, but I am more critical and have a nuance about that time.
Not even critical support. Just, I can recognize the place it had in my life. Like my shitty ex who tried to run me off the road. I certainly learned things about myself due to her, but she still sucks.
That’s valid and is largely how I feel. I wouldn’t be here and know what I know now without those experiences. I view my time in the army in the same light, but I am more critical and have a nuance about that time.