Failure to adhere to gender norms is just something the bourgeois do to be decadent, don't you know? It's all just hedonism and right-thinking Puritanical Americans know that feeling good is bad aktuly.

Any deviation from the hetero-normative spartan lifestyle is luxury. And no, don't ask how the Generals live. Get back to your barracks and start doing push-ups soldier. Questioning the norms is a sign of weakness and treachery.