And if so how did you move on or heal? Personally it took me 5 years to move on and I'm about to have it broken again lol but hey at least now I know how it feels 
Still makes life a bit more interesting and thrilling, nothing harder imo than telling someone else how you really feel, it's terrifying.
Perspective helps a lot. At least for me, once the immediate pain wears off I look back and give real serious thought to why it failed, what we were both looking for from the relationship, where it differed, all that kinda stuff. Getting a handle on that, the thought that it was never gonna work, gives me sort of a lifeline.