Aside from videogames, choose your own adventure (cyoa like on r/makeyourchoice) prompts are also pretty rife with shitty things. Aside from the excessive sexualization of women, there are also several instances where authors enforce a gender binary and heteronormative romance.
In a subculture based on customization and choice.
maybe! that seems like it could be a self selecting thing though, I don't tend to go watching racist or ideologically committed right wing bands either, because: gross. but they're definitely playing and have big audiences and that audience overlaps with shows I do go to and has big presence in online spaces.