Aside from videogames, choose your own adventure (cyoa like on r/makeyourchoice) prompts are also pretty rife with shitty things. Aside from the excessive sexualization of women, there are also several instances where authors enforce a gender binary and heteronormative romance.
In a subculture based on customization and choice.
I know black metal has been said, but it's metal in general. Like 1/3 are cool, 1/3 are maybe tolerable on a good day, and 1/3 are complete neonazis or bootlicking chuds.
1/3 being cool feels like an exaggeration unfortunately