This holiday season, shut the fuck up about how much you hate pumpkin spice lol

  • FidelCashflow [he/him]
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    3 years ago

    It is once again sexual pathology. Men hate young women because they realize that they want them as objects so they have to ritually deny their symbols of personhood.

    Not like the comrades here but Men™ in the world. Although, I am sure we all had emotions we have had to do self crit on to overcome.

    • Edelgard [she/her]
      hexagon
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      3 years ago

      Bullseye. Sexist men resent that they cannot outright own women and trying to degrade them gives those men a sense of control, even if it’s not based in reality.

      Everyone has internalized patriarchy. Working through it is fine, acting on it is bullshit.

    • ultraviolet [she/her]
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      3 years ago

      I would say that it's more patriarchy fundamentally denies women full personhood. I don't really like going down the "men are bad" route because it leans too much into the "personal responsibility" thinking but it is definitely true that a lot of men reinforce the patriarchy.

      • Edelgard [she/her]
        hexagon
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        edit-2
        3 years ago

        Yeah, I don’t think men are bad. I do think a lot of them are conditioned to behave in a way that is very damaging to themselves and those around them.

      • FidelCashflow [he/him]
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        3 years ago

        I mean, we were all libs once. As a young man I had to unlearn a bunch of emltions related to that myself. It is very much part of both the base and thr superstructure or however the math works