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  • carbohydra [des/pair]
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    3 years ago

    Are you planning to move there anyway? Is she planning to move where you are anyway? In my experience crushes always intensify after it's too late to pursue them. If you don't even remember if you were in the same year in school, it seems to me that you don't know each other well enough to justify some romantic journey across the world. By all means, contact her if you like, but be up front about your intentions very soon and be prepared that she's not interested. Don't torture yourself by chatting on and on without getting to the point.

      • carbohydra [des/pair]
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        3 years ago

        It seems I misunderstood your post, which is understandable because it's hard to convey all the nuances of these things at once. If you do indeed know each other well and the move is coincidental it is much more reasonable. 5 years is a long time too.