Now that I’ve caught you with the clickbait title,
Basically every post has included some form of toxic self-hate, minus one or two mentioning exercise. While I do like being able to confront these in the first place, the purported goals and name of this community gives people who are giving the exact wrong advice far too much credibility, and the last thing these people need is a comment with the most upbears regurgitating individualistic self-help concepts at them.
If we’re going to keep this sort of community around, I suggest doing some serious research and basing it off of DBT, and integrating serious critiques of CBT style mental healthcare and improvement.
I am just some random nerd who is terrible at self-improvement at general, so I understand taking this with some serious doubt. But I just had to get this off my chest.
Thank you, WithoutFurtherBelay
But this is exactly what I want! That’s a clear, actionable thing people can give clear, actionable advice on. People posting about how lazy they are or how they feel immature is NOT that, though it at least gives us the opportunity to tell them that’s not really an issue.
i think people posting about how they're lazy/immature is valid because some people do need to analyze why theyre lazy/immature or need assistance reaching conclusions.
I guess, but there needs to be some intense clarification that the issue is something other than them being “lazy”
Agree, that's definitely not what should happen here.