Source: https://www.smbc-comics.com/comic/meaning-3
smbc is not particularly good, but sometimes hits the spot.
I also found a tumblr blog about all the times JRR Tolkien used queer and gay in the old timey way: https://myqueeresttolkien.tumblr.com/
It's fine, thank you kindly :meow-coffee:
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